Making Love to Yourself is Magnetizing
If YOU don't want to have sex with you, why will anyone else?
Cultivating internal arousal is key to attracting what you desire.
Our culture has habituated the externalization of our sexual energy, arousal, desirability and pleasure.
Many people don't know how to connect with their sexual energy without the presence, fantasy, or performance of another person.
Many people's experience of sex exists largely in their minds, rather than in their bodies.
Many women see their sexual energy as "for their man," something that belongs to him and exists to serve HIS pleasure (this is especially common in older generations).
If we're dependent upon others to feel turned on, sexy and desirable, we’re disconnected from our own inner well of vital life force and magnetic pleasure that is essential to our well-being, empowerment, and ability to make magic!
Conjuring arousal from within, feeling sensually activated & delicious in your own skin, being able to turn YOURSELF on, is the alluring frequency that coaxes your heart's desires towards you.
If you feel repulsed or unenthused by yourself, lackluster, low confidence, or are constantly grasping outside of yourself in search of something that lights you up and makes you feel alive, you're repelling that which you desire.
Think of it as making yourself appetizing to all of your wishes through savoring your own flavor, relishing your own radiance, ravishing your own existence. Arouse yourself and you arouse and attract the life you desire.
Make love to each moment so that life can't help but make love to you in return.
I had a client who was upset about being rejected & when I asked if he was still working with his self-pleasure practices, he replied, "no, it's just me & my little penis."
That kind of attitude signifies to the world that you're not worthy, interesting or exciting. It repels, rather than entices.
When you enjoy the fuck out of yourself, you magnetize others who crave your special sauce and you attract fulfilling connections simply by having a fulfilling connection with yourself...
Meaning you're not waiting on amazing things to manifest, but are fully enjoying your own company and anything else is the cherry on top.