Upcoming In-Person Workshops & Private Intensives
The Art of Capacity
Coed SomaticWorkshopinto ExpandingYour Ability to Hold More in Life— Across All Terrains of Intensity
Cellevate, Long Beach, CA
Sunday, June 28th, 2-6pm
Every desire has an equal and opposite unconscious desire.
If the nervous system doesn’t have the capacity to hold the intensity of what we say we want— pleasure, intimacy, money, visibility, leadership, conflict, responsibility, aliveness— we unconsciously collapse back into familiar patterns and limitations.
What we often call self-sabotage is frequently a capacity issue.
The good news:
capacity is trainable across all terrains of life.
The Art of Capacity is a live somatic workshop designed to help you expand your ability to stay present with intensity without collapsing, shutting down, dissociating, over-performing, or abandoning yourself.
We will practice what we’ve learned immediately by immersing ourselves in the Contrast Cave (cold plunge, sauna and jacuzzi), and explore how our capacity to be with pyhsical intensity can be transferred to other areas of life.
Come prepared to work your edges in real time in a capacity expansion laboratory, and leave with a felt sense of possibility and the map to anchor it into being.
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Capacity short-circuiting can manifest as:
Avoiding conflict or vulnerability, or spilling in the face of it (losing your center, people-pleasing, or oversharing/over-giving).
Being unable to break out of an income ceiling, or manifesting a crazy bill every time you finally do.
“Blowing your load,” so to speak, in the face of intense pleasure or receiving large sums of money
Shrinking away from or collapsing in the face of visibility, pressure, or receiving
Contracting at the edge you know you need to lean into for your growth and expansion
Contorting yourself to be likable or avoid confrontation
Together, we’ll explore:nervous system capacity and self-sabotage
unconscious competing desires
titration, pendulation, and resourcing
expanding your “center of gravity”
increasing your capacity for:
pleasure
conflict
money
visibility
leadership
emotional intensity
receiving
desire
stress and uncertainty
This won’t be purely conceptual.
We’ll work directly with capacity in real time through embodiment practices, relational exercises, and nervous system expansion work designed to stretch your edges while helping you stay grounded in yourself.
You’ll leave with:
practical somatic tools
greater awareness of your unconscious patterns
a deeper intimacy with and resilience to discomfort and intensity
practices to continue expanding your capacity across every area of life
If you’ve felt yourself repeatedly collapsing at the edge of the life you say you want— this workshop is for you.
We will be in workshop space for 3 hours, with an hour in the Contrast Cave (included in the price) before the last hour of the workshop.
Soma Sanctuary
An Erotic Artistry Playshop forWomen
A day-long immersion into the dance between Eros, creativity, embodiment, and expression.
This is a curated sanctuary for women to fan the flames of the pulse of aliveness within themselves— outside of performance, repression, productivity, or orientation towards the male gaze.
Together, we’ll play with the relationship between erotic energy and creative life-force:
the wild edge where desire, fear, beauty, grief, power, softness, play, and expression all connect.
Through tantric embodiment practices, sensual movement, self-touch, conscious power dynamics, creative exploration, and relational exercises, we’ll cultivate deeper intimacy with ourselves, our bodies, and one another.
Whether you’ve been feeling disconnected, numb, shut down, creatively blocked, rigid, or simply hungry to feel more alive— this space is designed to help you reconnect to the parts of yourself that have been waiting to breathe again.
If you already feel the pulse of Eros in your being and crave a space to share it with other women– this space is for you.
You’ll leave with your cup overflowing and a wealth of practices to continue courting the erotic pulse of aliveness across every terrain of life.
Come as you are.
Leave more expressed, embodied, and alive than when you arrived.
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This space is designed to:
expand sensual and emotional aliveness
reconnect you to your body and desire
deepen self-expression and creative vitality
flirt with your edges in a grounded, supported way
nurture erotic sovereignty and embodied confidence
create genuine connection and sisterhood
Some portions of the container will involve partnered or group exploration, while others will be inward and personal.
No explicit sexual contact will take place.
This is a highly erotically charged space rooted in consent, presence, embodiment, and reverence for the intelligence of the body.